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Jim Amos's avatar

I love this! I've been (metaphorically) wearing Reggie Perrin around my neck like an Albatross since reading the book as a teenager and then watching reruns on TV. Amazingly prescient psychological gold. I think you did a great job of discussing some very under-represented aspects of the software engineering role and framing them with some personal vulnerability. Love that. I've also received comments at work to the effect that I was focusing too much on my "soft skills" and not pushing people hard enough or that I should have been writing more code when I was trying to coach and manage. There's SO much toxicity in tech and a lot of it isn't even conscious acts of toxicity but rather something to do with the way people (mostly men) are being raised and how the tech sector drums certain biases and stereotypes into you. I've spent a lot of my career trying to challenge and push back on all the myths and expectations that prevent us from finding joy and meaning in our work. At my last job when I was engineering manager we were allowed to create our own job title's so I was very direct in choosing 'Steward of Team Happiness, Engagement and Positive Outcomes'. In a similar vein, it's also not okay to talk about feeling burned out or depressed at work and I think that's a huge problem too. Thanks for writing this kind of thing, it's a rare source of inspiration that the world of tech badly needs.

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Angus Grundy's avatar

This is a long but fascinating read, John. Like you, I grew up on Reggie Perrin whose influence, I suspect, was one reason I left a large organization 20 years ago to go freelance. "I didn't get where I am today by sitting around singing kumbya, Reggie!" I'm sure your message of putting the joy back into work will reach a receptive audience. More, please.

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